Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Hating Truly Doesnt Make You Famous



It has come to my attention on The Circle blog that the past picture
of Amanda (member of Bella Browne)was posted on some gossip website and since
then has been some horrendous scandal and people are making it a bid deal. Now im not sure why it concerns other people but let it be known and reminded that what ever a person does in their personal life should not at all concern anyone else. Those nasty rude comments, clearly shows that some people have no lives and see to it that they put down others for their own amusement. Thankfully, Amanda's friends and family have supported her and has called attention to those "haters" to be put into their place. And this got me thinking...what is a hater?

Urban Dictionary defines it as a person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person. Hating, the result of being a hater, is not exactly jealousy. The hater doesnt really want to be the person he or she hates, rather the hater wants to knock somelse down a notch.

And it made me think sometimes hating doesnt neccessarily mean your jealous. That is a fact however it does mean you are stupid sometimes heartless and overall insensitive to someone's feelings. Honestly if people can go around posting pictures of people caught in compromising positions whether jokes or personal matters then have you really no shame? It was done as a joke among friends im sure when she was young. To say you have never done something stupid like that and posted it on your facebook or myspace or god knows where else is an absolute lie. She isnt a bad role model you know. On the contraire, in fact she is a good humble girl (i personally dont know her but from what i see and what her friends and family say of her im sure im right) and the picture was meaningless. Leave her be. Keep on "hating" if it allows you to sleep at night but your only giving her more attention then degrading her and you are still considered unknown. So they are not that famous yet. But tell me are you even close to being known. Most likely and i strongly agree: NOT!. Please why dont you go and study or do something more useful with your life but thank heavens she has....

then again ignore me and go find some more incriminating photos...doesnt make you famous but hey! if you sleep better at night then sure why not post away.

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